Condolence & Memory Journal

you are amazing!

Posted by FAith oddo - ledyard, CT   April 01, 2019


I love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by Arleen Brown - Ledyard, CT - family   November 08, 2018

I will always remember and cherish our adventures and times together. A part of me is lost with your passing. I love you and miss you so much, your always on my mind and in my prayers; as well as your parents, brother, and Joplin. Doreen, I can only begin to think of the pain your family is going through, I pray our Lord keeps you all close to him and guide your family through this. I miss visiting Caitlin and you guys in Poway. Please let Mr. Xirinachs know I have the utmost respect for you both and that I will always be of service to your family, for anything, if ever needed. I have some pictures in my photo albums that I will put together and work on sending to you. I love you all very much, thank you both for helping keep me on the right path when I struggled, I am forever grateful. God Bless

Posted by kevin boyce - san diego, CA - friend   September 19, 2017

I'm so very sorry for your loss,If there's anything you need please call me.. I was a very close friend..

Posted by Denise Connerty - Haverhill, MA - Neighbor   September 19, 2017


I miss you Caitlin. I have always missed you. I have always cared, and hoped for the best for you. You will always be in my heart.

Posted by Lance Sablan - San Diego, CA - friend   August 31, 2017

Your family is in our hearts and prayers, so terribly sorry for your loss

Posted by Heath, Jody and Dylan Brown - Norwich, CT - Family   August 29, 2017

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss. Let Joplin know I'm thinking of her!
Carol Ann Dawdy

Posted by Carol Ann Dawdy - coworker   August 28, 2017

I am so very sorry to your loss. Thinking of your family and praying for you during this difficult time.

Posted by Lorayne VanDeventer - Manchester, NH - Coworker   August 28, 2017

So sorry for the loss of your beloved daughter. Heartfelt sympathies to you and your family.

Posted by Pam Murphy - coworker   August 27, 2017


sending love and prayers to you all and holding Doreen close in my thoughts each day. Jack and Cait are born in the same year, we were all pregnant together me with Jack, Doreen with Caitlin and Karen with Stephen. I remember talking with you on the phone while at Karen's tiny apartment in Wakefield after eating Ice cream I am sure. I don't understand why Caitlin has been taken from you at such a young age and I try to reach back to the faith we all learned together as children. I ask God to help everyone to understand the addicted, our families and friends. I search for answers and solutions and I pray. A day at a time. I know we don't see each other often or even recently but when ever we have seen each other it is as though no time has passed. You have asked for privacy and I am going to respect that with my promise is to keep in touch and check in with Doreen often in the future. We live close enough that we should get together more often. I will check in on you Doreen and hope you can feel the love I am sending you and you family. I love you and am so sorry for your loss. XOXOXO

Posted by Corinne McDermott Shea - Reading - Friend   August 27, 2017


I'm so sorry for your loss.

Posted by Terri Hamlin - Friend   August 27, 2017

We want to express our deepest sympathies on the loss of Caitlin. We are so grateful to have known her and hope and pray for you all during this sad time.

Posted by Sean, Kerri, Jackson & Charlotte Wike - Rockland, MA - Family Friend   August 26, 2017

Praying for all of you

Posted by Starla Hamill - Manchester, NH - Friend   August 26, 2017

Praying for peace, comfort, and solace for yo all. We love you very much.
Paula and Rick

Posted by Paula and Rick Barry - Haverhill, MA - Family Friend   August 26, 2017

Be at peace knowing Caitlin is safely Home and with loving arms welcoming her. She lives on - especially in Joplin. Love to all the family.

Posted by Muriel Gilmartin - Greenfield, MA - Family   August 26, 2017

Doreenyou are a loving mom cat had the best mom may she Rest In Peace she will always be with you

Posted by Debbie Bondi O'Neill - Billerica - Family   August 26, 2017

Doreen and family, my heartfelt condolences go out to you all. I will certainly keep you all in my prayers. I know my first phone call after hearing of this tragedy was to my daughter who is about the same age just to say I love her. I cannot even comprehend what it is like to lose a child/sibling. God bless.

Posted by Renee Flynn - Stoneham, MA - Friend   August 26, 2017

My most sincere and deepest condolences to you Doreen and your entire family.

Posted by Marty Miasserian - Wilmington, MA - Friend   August 25, 2017

May your hearts be consoled that Caitlin will always be in your hearts and memories. May she rest and watch over you as your new Guardian Angel.

Posted by Stephen Caracciolo - EVERETT, MA - Family Friend   August 25, 2017

Caitlin - We will always love you and miss you. Your spirit , heart, and sole will live on through your beautiful daughter Joplin. Rest in peace. God bless.
-Love Uncle Tommy

Posted by Tom Gilmartin - Malden, MA - Family   August 25, 2017

I am thankful for the memories we shared.
You always said if you passed first you would haunt me and play jokes. Enjoy the peace and freedom my friend I will see you later.

Posted by Robert Fraize - friend   August 25, 2017

Fly high sweet angel! Love and prayers to the xirinachs and Gilmartin families.

Posted by Michelle Reardon - Redwood city, CA - Family Friend   August 25, 2017

My sincere condolences to my friends, Caitlin's loving family. She was loved deeply and completely. May she rest in sweet peace.

Posted by Peg Gallagher - Stoneham, MA - Friend   August 24, 2017

Dear Stephen, Doreen, Stephen Jr. and Joplin.

We are so sorry for your loss.
May you find comfort and tranquility in knowing that Caitlin is now in Gods home and at peace.
Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
With deepest Sympathy,
Laura and Bob Berg

Posted by Laura Berg - Wilmington, MA - Friend   August 24, 2017